A person spends at work a lot of time. Of course, everyone wants to have his work paid well. This is not the only objective pursued by people. For many important careers, they dream of a career move. Not everyone turns to develop it. Some increase in two months after the device to work, other work over the years, but a prestigious position can only dream of. What does it depend? Yes, the abilities, talents, skills, to flatter, to "knock" on colleagues. The options are many, but few think about the fact that the reason for the professional stagnation in themselves. They don't think talking to the Manager and colleagues. A good boss will realize what a worker in front of him, talk with him. At this point he will decide whether to increase it. We present to your attention the top 10 phrases that should be abandoned when dealing with the boss and colleagues. Because their use is a direct way to the lack of career advancement.
10. "Do you understand what I said?"
Many small chiefs, deputies deputies, and ordinary people who like to show their uniqueness in front of colleagues, I like to use this phrase. They think she gives them significance in the eyes of others. But it sounds like this: "I don't know what was going on, but you have to do it". It's like he's doubt for the told words, or do not understand what and how to do it. If you want to show its relevance to colleagues and use other phrases. Say: "If something is not understood, can ask questions". Then others will believe in your competence.
9. "I feel"
This phrase not suitable for work environment. Nobody asks you about your feelings and sensations. Of course, if you are working as a psychic. Your boss is only interested in facts and figures, colleagues too. Information based on feelings, is often unreliable. You can say that I feel that the new customer does not pay the payment on time or the project of your colleagues will be a failure. But nobody will treat you seriously. Tell that the client is running at a loss, and the project will bring damage to the company. Oh, and don't forget to reinforce this information with concrete figures.
8. "I'm sorry"
This phrase is too personal. Never mention it at work. You can kneel and beg forgiveness, but most likely, after such a feat you fired. Don't be too emotional. It's a job, there is no place for feelings. Many people absolutely no matter what happened to you, hurt you, your cat gave birth or you are flooded neighbors. Chief desired result, not your prayers, tears. If something did not, a promise that will correct the situation. Don't go into the details.
7. "This company sucks"
This is the most frequently used phrase. Many don't like my job, I go there only because of the wages. Even if you hate the company that I work for, hold your opinions to yourself, otherwise you will never improve. Moreover, if the boss finds out that you trash your employer, you will have problems. To say that you can in one case: when you get in the personnel Department of labor. But it is a sign of bad taste. You have a job here, worked here. You should be grateful for the experience and money. By the way, if you say bad things about all the companies in which you have been fortunate enough to work, new employers will look at you with suspicion.
6. "I feel so bad after last night"
Even if you drank last night with the most influential person in your city, don't tell anyone about this. People who can afford to drink when the next day to go to work, do not inspire confidence. You will not be respected, you feel yourself as a bad employee. Do not expect that colleagues will help you. All your worries and your health, nobody cares. So even if you had a good time yesterday, nothing anyone tell. And also be prepared to efficiently perform their duties, or at least make an appearance.
5. "Still nothing happens"
Pronouncing these words, you admit to your powerlessness. The head is not exactly like. You have been hired in order to do their jobs, solve certain tasks. Looking for a solution to the problem. Don't be afraid to deviate from the standards. Maybe you will find something new. Before you bring your idea to life, talk to your boss. If you understand that you will not be able to do the job, admit it to the head. It is not necessary to deceive him, to promise that tomorrow everything will finish. Work will be done and you will think even worse than if you'd admitted that you "can not handle".
4. "Excuse me, but"
Some people use this phrase to attract attention. They do not realize that it puts them below the source. If you've done nothing wrong, why apologize? If you want something to ask, start talking without preamble. Moreover, it is impossible to use these words when people speak. You interrupt him, questioning his words. Do not think that this phrase allows you all to distract the chief from talking on the phone, interrupt the conversation of colleagues. Wait until they will be free and then start a conversation. And "sorry" leave for those situations when to apologize.
3. "You had to" / "You should"
If something went wrong, never say this phrase. Your colleague, so, not feeling well, so it is not necessary to add fuel to the fire. If you say, "I told you so. I had to listen to me," you will further spoil the mood of the person. His attitude towards you will change for the worse. Soon everyone in the team will think about you as "too smart." If you want to help, suggest next time to do otherwise. Now there was nothing to fix, but you can do so in the future it is not repeated.
2. "This is work, not a place for fun"
All people are different. They relate differently to their work. For you normal working environment is clean Desk where everything is laid out in places of silence. Your colleague, on the contrary prefers a creative mess, music, jokes and flirting. Don't teach him to work. Perhaps he needed such conditions. He loves his job, loves the communication. While it can work no worse than you. Do not make colleagues comments. Of course, if they don't bother to do their duties. They are adults and behave as they see fit.
1. "I do not pay for it"
And finally – a catchphrase. Probably, you do not just it pronounced. There are few people who did not heed additional responsibilities or requests that way. No, we do not encourage you to agree to all requests. If you do not complicate, help. If you don't have time for it, politely refuse. Tell me that soon occupied. You work in a team, so it is not necessary to spoil relations with others. Moreover, do not say these words to the chief. He will think about you as a person that extra movement will do at no extra charge. Such people usually do not increase. Still, if you want that your career was successful, get ready to sacrifice your personal time.